Stephy Loves…

The Myth of Competition

The messages are everywhere. “In a world full of Kardashians, be a Diana.” “Be a Lucy.” “Be an Audrey.” “You hate me because you ain’t me.” “Why can’t you be like your sister/cousin/friend?” There’s this idea that we have to be in competition with each other, that we’re constantly being


When You’re On Borrowed Spoons

Since my health started going upside-down about a year and a half ago, spoon theory has spoken to me in a way I didn’t really understand before. I had heard it, but it’s not something that can really be understood without experiencing that bone-aching fatigue that comes with being completely